SAME SEX ATTRACTION

God created man in the image of himself, in the image of God he created him, male and female he created them.  And God blessed them and God said to them, "Be fruitful and multiply"

Genesis 1:27-28 

Step 1: Watch the Video

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This video features Rev. Paul Scalia, experienced in pastoral care of persons who experience SSA, talking about marriage to a group of teen boys in a classroom setting. Following that talk is testimonial from a member of Courage International. 

An introductory overview of the Tough Topics Same Sex Attraction Program

Source List

Episode 1: Same-Sex Attraction: What Do Nature and Reason Say?

Very Rev. Paul Scalia

You Can’t Love Another Person Apart From Truth

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wUXqgpbua9k

© 2022 St. Michael the Archangel High School, www.saintmichaelhs.org


Episode 2: Testimonial: What Does Experience Say?

Desire of the Everlasting Hills

https://everlastinghills.org/movie/

© 2022 Courage International Inc. www.couragerc.org


Biographies of Featured Speakers

Fr. Paul Scalia


Fr. Paul Scalia was ordained as a Roman Catholic Priest in 1996, when he finished his master of arts degree at the Angelicum in Rome. He is now Episcopal Vicar for Clergy in the Diocese of Arlington and Pastor of Saint James Parish in Falls Church, Virginia. He founded the Arlington chapter of Courage, an apostolate that counsels men and women with same-sex attractions in living chaste lives in fellowship, truth and love. He served as its chaplain from 2004 to 2011 and  served as Chairman of the Board of Directors of Courage International, from 2010 to 2018. He remains a member of the Board.  Fr. Scalia is the son of Justice Antonin Scalia (d.2016), who served on the United States Supreme Court for thirty years.

Step 2: Review Important Principles

After watching the video, give teens a chance to comment or ask questions.  Go over the following together. 

“We don’t want to think of people just in terms of categories: black, white, Hispanic, gay, bi, trans, or whatever else. We want to think of people as persons. Talk about people who have these experiences."

-Rev. Paul Scalia

Step 3: Practice Role-Play

Scenario #1: "Wedding" Invitation

You are at your grandfather’s funeral when your cousin Stan from out of town, whom you haven’t seen for years but used to be close to, greets you and introduces you to his “partner” Rick.

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Scenario #2: Discussing with a Friend

One afternoon, you and a good friend from school start talking about religion when she remarks, "I don't understand why the Catholic church hates gays so much. Isn't Jesus all about love? Why can't you just accept them for who they are?"

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Scenario #3: Pride Month Volunteering

You are volunteering at the local library after school and one day the librarian asks you to set up a special display to celebrate "Pride Month"...

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“We are created by God in love, for love, and for eternity. Our identity is a created son or daughter of God.” 

-Mary Hasson


Download the program materials and distribute to participants. The materials include the important principles and the complete role-play scenarios for participants to review and put into practice.

Additional Resources

Support:

For resources to assist those with same-sex attraction: Truth & Love

For pastoral care for families and friends of people who experience same-sex attractions and/or gender dysphoria:  Courage

For a video by Jason Evert on Homosexuality, Gay Marriage, and Holiness

Age appropriate for 13+

For parents of younger children: CanaVox 

For first hand explanation of authentic support:  My Father Gives Me Bread: What the LGBTQ+ Community Needs by Dr. Amy E. Hamilton

For help related to sexual abuse, contact Arlington Diocese Office of Victim Assistance

Information:

For three intimate and candid portraits of Catholics who try to navigate the waters of self-understanding, faith, and homosexuality, watch Desire of the Everlasting Hills

For science-based arguments in support of supernatural truths, view free videos such as "The Remarkable Evidence of a Transcendent Soul," and "Science, God, and Creation," available at Magis Center 

For information on the universal definition of marriage: Dissenting Opinion, Obergefell v. Hodges Nos 14-556,14-565,14-571,14-574 U.S. (2015)  Obergafell

Excerpts from Chief Justice Roberts dissenting with Justice Scalia and Justice Thomas joining (pages 4-7):


And a State’s decision to maintain the meaning of marriage that has persisted in every culture throughout human history can hardly be called irrational.

As the majority acknowledges, marriage “has existed for millennia and across civilizations.” Ante, at 3. For all those millennia, across all those civilizations, “marriage” referred to only one relationship: the union of a man and a woman. (p.4)


This universal definition of marriage as the union of a man and a woman is no historical coincidence. Marriage did not come about as a result of a political movement, discovery, disease, war, religious doctrine, or any other moving force of world history—and certainly not as a result of a prehistoric decision to exclude gays and lesbians. It arose in the nature of things to meet a vital need: ensuring that children are conceived by a mother and father committed to raising them in the stable conditions of a lifelong relationship. (p. 4,5)

The human race must procreate to survive. Procreation occurs through sexual relations between a man and a woman. When sexual relations result in the conception of a child, that child’s prospects are generally better if the mother and father stay together rather than going their separate ways. Therefore, for the good of children and society, sexual relations that can lead to procreation should occur only between a man and a woman committed to a lasting bond.

Society has recognized that bond as marriage. (p.5)

In his first American dictionary, Noah Webster defined marriage as “the legal union of a man and woman for life,” which served the purposes of “preventing the promiscuous intercourse of the sexes, . . . promoting domestic felicity, and . . . securing the  maintenance and education of children.” (p.6,7)

A Prayer of St. Teresa of Calcutta (1910 - 1997 AD)

People are often unreasonable, illogical, and self-centered;

Forgive them anyway.

If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives;

Be kind anyway.

If you are successful, you will win some false friends and some true enemies;

Succeed anyway.

If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you;

Be honest and frank anyway.

What you spend years building, someone could destroy overnight;

Build anyway.

The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow;

Do good anyway.

Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough;

Give the world the best you've got anyway.

You see, in the final analysis, it is between you and God;

It was never between you and them anyway.